To say that a parent’s attachment to his or her kids is strong may be a negative statement. Attachment is described as secure and insecure, so it is possible to have a strong attachment that is insecure. (more…)
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Attachment Patterns and God
Friday, September 9th, 2011Emotions versus Actions
Thursday, June 24th, 2010Many present a split between emotions and actions. Thus we may not be able to help feeling a certain way but feelings are okay as long as we do not act on them. Examples would be fear, anger, or desire. These feelings are not thought of as right or wrong, but instead one evaluates one’s actions as right or wrong. So acting right becomes more important. Similarly, if one does not feel enough joy, hope, or love, one may put more emphasis on actions, focusing instead on doing what is right. (more…)
The Heart in the Bible
Wednesday, May 19th, 2010God works through the heart (Jeremiah 31:33). It is out of the heart that we connect with God (Romans 10:10). We are told not to lose heart (Galatians 6:9). What does the heart represent in the Bible? (more…)
Follow your Heart?
Tuesday, May 11th, 2010The Bible says the heart is deceitful. Counseling however, often encourages one to listen to the heart. The Bible also talks about how God works through the heart. Perhaps the heart is deceitful, and God works to change the heart. “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life” (Proverbs 4:23).
How might God work through the heart? There are many accounts in the Bible. (more…)